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Showing posts with label women's writing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label women's writing. Show all posts

Saturday, 15 January 2022

Book Review : Afsaneh : Short Stories by Iranian Women.

            

This was a heartbreaking book to read and I wept through reading it. I had to put it away and take breaks from it. I must add I read it while I was grieving and it just wrenched my heart out. Perhaps my grief had something to do with my reaction, I can't be sure. While reading a few of the stories in this collection earlier, I'd had a similar response though I never got around to completing the entire collection at the time. Yet, I wouldn't miss this book for the world.                                               

This particular collection is part of a series of women's short story collections from all over the world. I have read the Indian collection. The Pakistan collection called Kahani and Galpo the collection from Bangladesh lined up next. There are also collections of stories by Palestinian, Czech and Lebanese women, all of which are published by Saqi Books.

The editor's foreword provides a short introduction to modern Iranian literature by women. Kaveh Basmenji is the editor and translator. I probably shouldn't hold his gender against him, but I can't help feeling a woman would have done a very different and better job of curating this collection. 
The characters who inhabit these tales are overwhelmingly women characters.

There are two stories featuring men taking a second, younger wife, both told from the perspective of the daughters of the first wife. In the  the protagonist is a child living a charmed and happy childhood when she realizes that her father is not really on a trip but is gone forever. In Mansoureh Sharifzadeh's The Stranger the teenaged protagonist's father has abandoned her mother, and the daughter now faces threats of violence similar to the violent attacks and abuse her mother had put up with. 

Indeed violence and its threat is the ghost suffusing the pages of this book, its presence lurking from the words, casting a pall over the lives of the women who live in them. 

Most of the stories are pictured in rural settings life and the descriptions are rich with depictions of nature. Agriculture has been a basic mode of living of the people of the land and it is natural that the stories use the agricultural practices and mentions of flora and fauna as regular backdrops to the stories. Gardens are an intrinsic part of Iranian culture.  
Indeed the Mughal love of gardens and their laying them out wherever they went, be it Shalimar Bagh or Srinagar or the rich greens in the cities can be traced to a very large Persian cultural influence. 


A few of the stories with magic realism were difficult for me to understand, and the genre not being a favorite of mine, the convolutions that went on did sometimes get the better of me.The magic realism of Shahrnoosh Parsipour in two stories Crystal Pendants and Mahdokht, though set in very different backdrops,  are tied to their characters' yearning for liberation, even if only in another life. 


Moniru Ravanipour's The Blue Ones and  also rife with fable images of weeping mermaids and sailors who are down to them and thus drown in the sea, was as gripping as it was surreal, yet made me very uncomfortable. The comings and goings of people in a hospital which seemed more a place of cruelty than healing, I couldn't wait for it to end, and the ending left me mystified. I really wasn't sure why the protagonist patient wasn't going home and why she's push her own daughter to help heal the broken heart of a soldier returning from war.

The tragedies of old age, the helplessness that comes with it and the dependence on children who have less and less time for you even as you languish lonely, is depicted in heart breaking detail in more than one story. Whether it is To Whom Shall I Say Hello? or Goli Taraqqi's character Mahin Banoo in  A House In Heaven, the tribulations of old age are poignantly brought to life in these stories.


Mahsid Amarshahy's story of a chance encounter on a train, in Khorramshahr-Tehran tells of a woman who takes a risk with a sexual in nature. A woman with agency and control over her body and her desire is such a welcome departure. 

My absolute favorite story was The Shemiran Bus so wonderfully crafted by Goli Taraqqi. A woman taking a bus ride with her daughter reminisces about her own childhood riding a bus to school and her attachment for the driver of her bus, who by all accounts seems like an uncouth untrustworthy character. It reminded me so much of Rabindranath Tagore's "Kabulliwallah".

There are twenty stories in all, with a few authors getting multiple entries. The editor uses the time frame of the Islamic Revolution to categorize the stories. The revolution however, is actually featured in only two of the stories and it does not seem to have brought any discernible change in the (mis)fortunes of the women who populate these stories. At least no drastic change is portrayed in the stories featured here. A little bibliography states that most of the writers were born in the time period 1931-65 with a mention of one or two more works of each of the authors. 


As for the translation, the attempts to use Americanisms becomes glaring and the translation is jarring at times. Even though I am not conversant with the Persian language, I could still guess where the translation has floundered. When the sensibilities of the speakers of two languages differ so widely, transferring the syntax to another language is always a challenging task and here the gaps show up. 

This is my first introduction to modern Iranian literature, and I am not aware of the variety of writing available, but perhaps the collection could have been a little more varied.  The stories can get a tad repetitive. The depiction of the harsh realities of ordinary working class women's lives in Iran may come from a place of truth-telling, but the relentless misfortune that dogs the women in most of these stories does get a bit harrowing. 

 Afsaneh  a word commonly used in Hindi and Urdu, is familiar to me. The word itself is magical to me, with it's connotations of fable. And much of the delight I took in reading this book was the pleasure of stumbling upon familiar words, from having been absorbed from Persian into Hindi. Realizing how the culture of this vast, ancient land has influenced Indian, specially the Awadhi culture of Lucknow was another bonus.

If you are at all curious about Iran and the lives of its women this book comes highly recommended.
My Rating: 

Tuesday, 5 January 2021

Book Review: Celestial Bodies by Jokha Alharthi

                                               


 Although it is touted as a book about three Omani sisters Mayya, Asma and Khawla, this slim volume contains the stories of a multitude of characters, all connected through the three sisters and the men they marry.

Many of these characters get a page or two to themselves. However, the book isn't long enough to flesh out each of these lives. Yet, one still ends up sympathetic to most of the people populating this book.


The books has numerous allusions to bits of black magic and the often the narrative shifts between different time periods. At other times, it is just the hallucinations of the characters, but with so much going on, it all gives rise to some confusion.

The allusion to the moon is made often, as it is an icon of traditional Arabic poetry, specially the classic love poems. In the midst of it all is a strange, passionate love story between the father of the three girls and a typical femme fatale character. In itself it seems lively enough yet somehow its attachment to the rest of the narrative is wanting. Why is there absolutely no explanation of why he cheats on his wife? It seems to have been thrown in almost as an afterthought.


 The character who is most sympathetically fleshed out and who I grew grew quite fond of is Abdallah who falls in love with and marries the eldest of the three sisters, Mayya. However even in their relationship all is not smooth sailing.


Abdallah loses his mother when very young and grows up under the watch of the strict disciplinarian of a father and the violence that he faces at his hands makes your heart break. Throughout the length of the book Abdallah keeps on trying to recreate images of his mother trying to remember whatever little details he can. Her death, narrated rom different perspectives is like the unravelling of a mystery. Here is another convoluted story which remains unpredictable till the end.


 Abdallah faces violence that is father's hands and the trauma of it never really leaves him. On the one hand the desertion by his mother- at least that's the story told to him-haunts him all along. His desperate attempts to establish intimacy with his wife also leave you sympathetic to him, as she remains aloof.  

The reasons why Mayya refuses intimacy are not very clear other than her short lived romance with a young man before her marriage. Does she holds onto his memory, or is it simply depression does not become clear.


 The second sister who is desperate to get out of her parents home so she simply latches onto the best offer that comes away and she gets married. This is as much a reflection of the lives of so many women at least in parts of Asia where marriage is the one step which ensures at least some degree of freedom because till a woman is married she is not even considered an adult.


 The third sister Khawla gets the least time in the book


 This slim volume is populated by so many characters


 the various threads are all woven into each other and that the author is able to hold on to the various threads in making them into a coherent wholes is a definitely a big achievement


 It is also reminiscent of a lot of the customs and mannerisms of Indian women. The effort to keep up with the joneses specially in the matters of gift-giving to the bride at the time of the wedding in terms of a trousseau, the need to show off via the various customs, the internal wranglings between the women in the household and ultimate the word 

Patriarchy is more powerful than any law-these are the aspects that seemed very familiar to me.


 Even as these women live traditional lives they are hemmed in by the rules that bind them. They are able to find strength to not only guide their lives in their own way, how they best see it fit, but also navigating the different courses of life as it unfolds.  The book is also an intimate peep into Omani society, how it functions and how it is transitioning from the days past when it was a society of nomads of the bedouin tribes and now mostly city dwellers, living modern day lives in large metropolises.

If you, like me have had no introduction to Omani literature, this is certainly a great place to begin.

Sunday, 24 April 2016

Book Review of Ismat Chughtai's works : A Trio of Collections of Her Writings

Shame on me, for I have only recently realised the full import of Ismat Chughtai's writing and what the heritage of her work means for feminism in India. It is even more astounding to think how much impact her writing must have made on her contemporaries, specially women and girls. Undoubtedly, she must have ruffled many a feather of the establishment!

Admittedly, I don't know much of her position in the Urdu literary pantheon, nor how she was looked upon by her contemporaries. But it isn't too difficult to see that she is a huge iconoclast of her times. What delights me the most about her writing is that she pulled no punches and in essay after essay she has blasted people, naming names and shaming people. I barely suppress a chortle as I imagine her delight in pissing off the establishment of the day.

I base my observations on the three books which I read recently, "A Life In Words-Memoirs" and "Lifting the Veil-Selected Writings" both translated by M.Asaduddin. The third book is "My Friend, My Enemy" a collection of essays, reminiscences and portraits, translated by Tahira Naqvi.

A little personal note here. I read all three books recently over a span of a few days, while on vacation. Having never lived alone, I was now vacationing for the first time by myself, enjoying the absolute solitude this time away from responsibilities afforded me. And here was a woman who lived well over half a century ago, on her own terms when it was unfathomable to do so.
She had courage and grit I could never dream of, setting on her own path from a tender age. A generation ago, she dared to be a non conformist when being one was not only difficult it could literally cost you your life.

She fought tooth and nail to gain an education, telling her parents she'd run away from home if they didn't let her pursue her matriculation. Though from a progressive family, Chughtai's parents were forced to withdraw their two elder daughters from school on pressure from the extended family. Dark hints about the girls' loss of character left the parent perturbed. The final clincher had been "who will marry them?". One relative went so far as to say "better to pimp your girls rather than send them to school" With this background her fight becomes all the more poignant and her courage, more stark. The subversive power of her characters and stories hits you like a blow to the gut.

A lot of her personality is reflected in her writing. Smart, witty and full of satire, her metaphors are at once rooted in the ethos of her times but also lyrical and beautifully evocative. You can see her sympathies lie with the women in her stories and you can't help but be swept along. The poor beggar woman, who, it turns out is also a thief, in "Tiny's Granny" yet leaves you bereft in mourning for her loss. The heartbreaking story of the two women who live and die in the hope of one of them getting married off, in "The Wedding Suit" leave you with a lump in your throat. "Vocation" is a cleverly told tale where the protagonist casts aspersions on her neighbours; she assumes them to be prostitutes. Later, on revelation that they belong to the aristocracy, she's taken aback. This serves to highlight the hypocrisy and sexism of our society in our attitudes towards women.

Some of her most beautiful and thoroughly fleshed out sketches of scenes and characters are of childhood, be it from her memoirs or her short stories like "The Net". Her most well known story "Lihaaf-The Quilt" for which she was prosecuted by the British government, with charges of obscenity, is included in the collection. An account of this trial is also incorporated in her memoirs.

Personally the most searing piece of her writing, to me, remains the short story "Gainda". A poignant tale of how a little girl from a lower caste is sexually exploited by an upper class man, then slut-shamed, and abandoned, once it's discovered that she is pregnant with his child. The psychology of the child and her playmate is brilliantly explored. The image of the frail Gainda in her hovel living in false hope has not left me.

Over five decades have passed and much of our attitudes towards women remain unchanged. That's the sad reality of our country.
 A path breaking feminist of her times and an iconoclast to boot; Ismat Chughtai's works are a must read!

    AUTHOR  :  ISMAT CHUGHTAI
          BOOK : A Life In Words (Memoirs)
                       (Translation of Kaghazi Hai Pairahan by M.Asaduddin)
PUBLISHER : Penguin Books 2012
                         278 pages

    AUTHOR :  ISMAT CHUGHTAI
          BOOK:  Lifting The Veil (Selected Writings)
                        (Translations by M.Asaduddin)
PUBLISHER : Penguin India 2009
                        261 pages

  AUTHOR    : ISMAT CHUGHTAI
         BOOK  : My Friend, My Enemy (Essays, Reminiscences, Portraits)
                        (Translation by Tahira Naqvi)
PUBLISHER : Kali for Women 2001
                         284 pages

 












Sunday, 17 April 2016

Book Review : The Intrusion and Other Stories by Shashi Deshpande

                                   

Finally I begin the long planned book review section of this blog! As my reading had slowed down to an almost non-existent trickle, naturally this had taken a back seat. Towards the end of 2015, I set my mind on making a few small changes at a time and hoped the cumulative impact would be something meaningful. Now that it's mid-April, I'm happy it looks like I'm on way. So here goes.

Stories and fiction have so much power, to move and to convey a message without overt moralising. What many a march or occupation may not be able to achieve, art quietly can. Be it a piece of fiction or a play or even cinema, if it is powerful and effective, it leaves its mark on the psyche of the audience without loud declarations of intent. I've been mulling over this as I've restricted my reading- or, as I'd like to put it- opened it up - to the exclusive authorship of women. I will try to read only women's writing in 2016.

A collection that's moving as well as thought provoking at the same time is Shashi Deshpande's "The Intrusion and Other Stories". I've been a fan of Shashi Deshpande for long and I've read most of what she's written. This collection of stories is lovely in the way she conveys in little vignettes the dilemmas and the conflicts of women's lives -the overwhelming majority of protagonists  of these stories are women- all the while providing insights into their minds. The women who inhabit her stories are a varied lot, not just in age and the lives they lead but also their milieu.

She depicts struggles which are exclusive to women and some which are simply human dilemmas. The protagonists of these stories come through the narratives, their voices ringing clear in your ears long after the stories have ended. They may, at times, be beaten, but often the most unlikeliest of characters manage to transcend their boundaries and circumstances.

I was pleasantly surprised to find in this collection, the tales of women ranging from ambitious career women and the lonely new widow who struggles with an empty nest. There's also the widow who will not let all the gossip or even the physical and verbal abuse from her extended family keep her from forging new paths for herself.

The housewife who is on the verge of adultery, or the bored first lady who scoffs at those around her, each bored out of her wits by her humdrum existence or even more interesting, the woman who has given up a full time job to relocate and become a housewife. Yet each woman asserts herself in her own unique way, usually quietly, sometimes not so much! But none of these women sees herself as a victim.

Each story is unique and told with sensitivity. More than a few of these tales left me with a lump in my throat. Vintage Shashi Deshpande and a thoroughly enjoyable read!

AUTHOR : Shashi Deshpande
     BOOK : The Intrusion And Other Stories
Publisher  : Penguin Books, 1993 (Reprint 1994)